It is NOT about you,
it is ALL about God,
but because it is ALL about God it is all about you
If you are truly walking in grace and love, in turn, it will become ALL about others, for that is what God is all about - you and others.
So, it is all about you, but if that is where it stops, you are falling short of the New Covenant. It is a plural you in Col. 1:27. It is NOT "Christ in you" -but it is "Christ in y'all"